But the father’s welcome wasn’t quite the end of the story. Because there’s still the third key character-
The Older Son
This was “the good boy”, the one who had always done everything right and always done what his father had asked; who had stayed home and slogged his guts out in the family business. So when he got home from a hard day working in the fields to find a party going on, and then discovered that it was a party for his younger brother who had come back home, he was outraged, full of indignant self-righteousness, even to the point of refusing to enter the house. So his father came out and pleaded with him to come in–something which, in the middle eastern culture of the day, was very demeaning.
But now the truth came out; for while he had apparently served his father with a good heart all those years, his words reveal his true attitude. “Look! All those years I’ve been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. When this son of yours has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fatted calf for him!”
What do we hear there? Resentment. He hadn’t worked with his father, but felt he had been “slaving” for him; he doesn’t call the returning son “my brother” but “this son of yours”; and he gladly rehearsed his brother’s failures.
Like his younger brother, this older brother had also made a decision; but it was a decision to lock himself up in outrage, bitterness and resentment. He was as lost as his younger brother had been; but he just didn’t know it. He had lived at home and was part of the family and enjoyed its blessings; but over the years he had lost his sense of purpose and his joy and had forgotten his father’s big-heartedness-just like the Pharisees had done with God. That’s why they couldn’t cope with Jesus mixing with what they saw as the dregs of society; why they couldn’t cope with Jesus showing how big-hearted God is.
To those of you exploring faith in Jesus, the Parable of the Prodigal Son is a reassurance that God is far bigger-hearted than you ever dared imagine; and that no matter what you have been or done, no matter what has been done to you, no matter how far you feel you may have drifted away from him, your heavenly Father is ready to welcome you home and bring you into his family.
And to those of you who have been Christians for some time, the Parable of the Prodigal Son is a challenge not to let “older son syndrome” creep into your life, leaving you like the Pharisees of Jesus’ day who looked down on everyone else.